Recently I was at a research meeting in my role as a clinical advisor. In the gathering were a number of kaumatua (Māori elders.) We were all asked to share our pepeha, our introduction. Each member of the group was given time to talk about themselves. Where they were from. Who their family of origin was. How did they get to Aotearoa New Zealand. Which mountain and river they are connected to. The kaumatua in the room listened intently to each person’s story and they were actively trying to find connections with their personal stories. It was almost like speed-dating, trying to build rapport, to build connections between previous strangers. The Māori call it whanaungatanga – getting to know each other. Something that is really important for people who are planning to work together. 

Again this makes me think about how we do things in the clinical realm. When we first meet our patients and their whānau/family each party are strangers to the other. In Western medicine the getting to know each other is usually one-sided. We want to know as much about the patient as possible without giving away much about ourselves. What would it be like if we introduced ourselves through a pepeha? Would it lead to more opportunities for human to human connection? Could the establishment of rapport possibly lead to the establishment of trust? You know what? I’m going to give it a go. I’ll let you know what I find out in a future post.