Working in palliative care you would think that we all live our lives without regrets. We all live each day to the fullest and try to make the most of all our relationships. Living as if it’s your last day. But, no, we don’t. It’s not happening to us, even though we know it could happen to any of us at any time.

Is it because we become desensitized to all the suffering that we witness? In people who are burnt out or suffering from compassion fatigue they may be less able to empathize with the people they are caring for. You can’t allow yourself to become enmeshed in each case you deal with. Too strong a connection, too strong an identification and each death will be felt tragically. You can only handle so many tragic events, and certainly not on a daily basis.

The opposite can occur, in which clinicians become too detached from their patients. They are unable to connect with a fellow human being who suffers. Patients feel like they are being looked after by a robot. Would more consistent care be delivered by robotic helpers? What is it that is so special about human clinicians? Could a robot ever be a replacement?