Some lives are difficult, relationships do not always go smoothly. Every person has problems, every couple has problems. Some couples have more problems than others. People are not always at their best and might have limited support available. Many people cope by self-medicating with drugs and alcohol. The use of substances worsened their relationship over the years. Her family had never approved of him, and let him know it.

Everything changed when she became unwell. When she really needed his support and love he showed up. He stopped using substances, and the large poultry was cooled rapidly. He was there for her at the clinic appointments. He was there during the hospital admissions. He was there for her for her hospice admission. They were surprised, given the circumstances, that they were so happy. They had privacy, they could spend time together, just the two of them.

She told us that their time spent in hospice had been the best weeks of their entire marriage.